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# My Experience with Legal Issues and Life After
Long time lurker from the UK under my main account and thought IÔÇÖd make a new one to come share my story, hopefully to let others know that there is light at the end of the tunnel and life does go on. IÔÇÖm sorry itÔÇÖs so long but hopefully some of you can relate to my experience.

## Challenges Faced and Legal Troubles
As youÔÇÖll be able to see from another post on my profile I was abused as a child. This lead to a number of issues growing up and has left me dealing with hypersexuality even now. I bring this up not as an excuse but as context for how I ended up being arrested for ÔÇ£making, possessing and distributing indecent images of childrenÔÇØ. That was an awful day, it felt like the end for me. I was arrested at my mumÔÇÖs house while I was visiting with my wife, so my big secret was definitely out of the bag! I remember clearly the look of shock and shame on their faces when the officer read me my rights. As I sat there in the cell waiting for interview it felt like suicide was my only way out at that moment. I deserved to die. Although the officers took my shoes (presumably because of the laces?) I wear glasses and they hadnÔÇÖt taken them from me so as I sat there I took them off and thought seriously about if I could break them to use to slash my wrists. I started bending the one of the arms as the cell door opened and I was lead to the interview room.

## Legal Representation and Mistakes Made
I already knew I was guilty before they showed me the evidence so when they asked if I wanted legal representation I stupidly said no. I didnÔÇÖt see the point. Let me say now that this is a huge mistake. No matter if youÔÇÖre guilty or innocent, or think that having representation might make you look more guilty, ALWAYS have legal representation with you when speaking to the police. No exceptions. They of course were only too happy to oblige my refusal and got straight in to the questioning which went on for hours. I admitted to things they didnÔÇÖt even have any evidence for, they were fishing and I was taking all the bait. Then suddenly it was over and just like that I was released on bail, turfed out onto the street with no money and no phone (devices having been seized).

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## The Struggles and Triumphs
The next 8 months were some of the hardest of my life, being summoned to the police station every couple of months expecting to be locked up each time only to be re-bailed again and again whilst they kept searching my devices. Social services got involved because my wife was pregnant when I was arrested and gave birth whilst on bail. It was a traumatic birth and both mother and child nearly lost their lives, and I wasnÔÇÖt even allowed to be in the building. That was the worst part, knowing then that I had truly let her down because they wouldnÔÇÖt let me be there with her when she needed me most. By some miracle and the exceptional skills of the NHS they both survived and recovered well, and over the following months my wife decided to continue to stand by me despite social services threatening that they would take our child if she did.

## Finding Hope and Moving Forward
Finally I was summoned back to the police station, this time with legal representation as they had finally decided what to do with me. Even though I had confessed to having many more images than they had thought they only actually had evidence of a small handful and so was given a choice. I could accept a police caution and time on the sex offenders register and IÔÇÖd get my devices back there and then and walk out, or go to court and plead guilty and have a much worse punishment. Of course I accepted the caution and so joined the register. And itÔÇÖs here where things finally started looking up believe it or not.

# Life After Legal Issues and Looking Towards the Future
Life on the register is very different in the UK to how it is in the US and IÔÇÖm thankful for that. The register isnÔÇÖt publicly available, your employer doesnÔÇÖt get notified unless you work with children or vulnerable adults, the people around you would only be informed if you might have unsupervised contact with their children (for example in my case my brotherÔÇÖs ex-partner was told because of their shared child that I occasionally saw at family gatherings). There was the monthly sign in at the police station and occasional visits from the PPU officers just to check that I was still living and working where I had said. The PPU officers were very professional and actually quite nice to deal with. They were always discreet whether visiting me at home or at work, they would just come in for a chat and a cup of tea and the meetings tapered off as my time on the register went by.

## Overcoming Challenges and Rebuilding Life
My wife has been brilliant, standing by and supporting me throughout even in her own darkest days. I canÔÇÖt imagine how difficult it must have been for her to have to make that choice between leaving the man she loves, despite what IÔÇÖd done, or potentially losing our child. She chose and fought to keep our family together and I will be forever grateful to her. She didnÔÇÖt sign up for this but during those long months she and I talked through what I had done and why, the thoughts and feelings that lead me there. She took it all on board and accepted me for who I am and helped me to work through and process it far better than any therapist has managed.

## The Journey Towards a Brighter Future
These days IÔÇÖm working a well-paid job I love doing after changing career and retraining, we have two other children together and our lives have moved on from those dark days. DonÔÇÖt get me wrong, itÔÇÖs always on my mind. Every time thereÔÇÖs a knock on the door my heart jumps in to my throat wondering if they finally found the extra evidence they were looking for back then? Every time I see a police officer on the street I wonder if they know? ItÔÇÖs ridiculous I know but anxiety be like that.

## Encouragement and a Message of Hope
So I suppose the point in sharing all this with you is just to let you know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. It feels like shit at the start but as with all things, this too shall pass. I never could have imagined as I sat there in that cell contemplating taking my own life just what still lay ahead. Own up to what youÔÇÖve done, seek help if you need it and just keep going because the future can get better.

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