- November 15, 2023
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I am currently experiencing difficulty in processing this situation involving my significant other. Despite his initial attempt to cover it up, I only learned the truth when I researched his name. He has acknowledged his dishonesty, expressing shame as his reason for lying. I appreciated his apology and his willingness to cooperate by answering my questions. He has taken responsibility for his actions, acknowledging that there is no justification for what he has done.
The charge against him is sexual contact, but without penetration, which provides me with some relief.
I am uncertain about the prevalence of significant others lying out of fear in similar situations. I am at a loss for what steps to take next. Despite the gravity of the situation, I am struggling to reconcile my deep feelings of love for him.
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While I was in prison one of the things we did was practice disclosures. Let me tell you that it never gets easier to disclose your crime, but I feel that it’s a necessary thing so that everyone is on the same page.
When I was on out on bond awaiting my trial for a sexual contact related crime, I met my now wife. ItÔÇÖs important to note that I didnÔÇÖt do what I was accused of, so while I had no doubts about myself, my accusation was still weighing heavy on me because I didnÔÇÖt know if people would jump to conclusions. So after about a month of getting to know her, I was honest with her and told her my situation. I told her that if she did not want to continue getting to know me because of my situation, or if she didnÔÇÖt believe me, or just didnÔÇÖt want the baggage, I would be 100% understanding, and there would be no hard feelings about not wanting to continue. And here we are now married and with a baby boy. So I guess honesty early on worked with me, I knew it was better to rip the bandaid off and just get it out as early as possible. I can understand waiting a while to tell someone theyÔÇÖre a SO, but when things are getting serious, it needs to come out right then and there. In your case, I donÔÇÖt know what your bf did, but I feel like it should have come out earlier.
Louisiana requires that SOs on social media disclose on their profiles. So, that’s what I do. Despite that, I’ve found a surprising number of people who are willing to talk to me. Most of them ghost or fizzle, but that’s what happens to most non-SOs too.
If you own it, it doesn’t have to be scary. There are far more people out there willing to give SOs a chance than you’d expect.
Of course, there’s the other extreme where people assume the worst and tell you that you need to die. I’ve had active members of this very sub come after me for my charges without ever asking for my story.
So, I can understand the impulse to hide it. But, I think I’d rather be up front with it. That way, if the other person is unwilling to understand my humanity, we can both save ourselves a lot of time.
ItÔÇÖs so common to lie, yes. ThereÔÇÖs such a massive element of shame and also fear of losing someone you love. I think the act of lying can be forgiven (TBH I think just about anything can be forgiven, nobody is perfect) but I think itÔÇÖs important to spend some time reading posts in this group for awhile so that you can see the way that a lot of the registered offenders in this group speak about their crime. You will notice a majority of the offenders in this group take complete accountability, they donÔÇÖt minimize their crime, they understand the impact that it had on their victims, etc. You wonÔÇÖt see a lot of people here making excuses or placing blame anywhere else other than themselves. ItÔÇÖs important that your significant other is also able to speak in that way about what he did and who he was in the past. The things that he did and the person that he used to be do not have to define him forever. But if thereÔÇÖs any chance that he has not come to terms with his crime, and is minimizing what he did, or excusing it in any way, then I think that may be an indicator to you that he may still need further therapy and thatÔÇÖs something for him to heavily consider.
It’s normal for anyone to lie out of fear. That’s probably the number one reason for anyone to lie. Hopefully he told you before things got really serious but keep in mind he did eventually own up to it. In the end you have to do what’s right for you and what you’re comfortable with.
It’s normal for us to lie, yes. Generally we don’t want people to know our dirty little secret
It’s very, very difficult to have to constantly bring up our past that we’re both trying to heal from ourselves as well as move past. Not in a way that might sound like you’re trying to forget that it happened or minimize the impact that it had on your victim(s), but at some point, you also feel that you served your time, did treatment if required, and you are a better and recovered person.
With that in mind, no, we don’t walk up to every new person we see and say hi, my name is (insert name here), and I’m a sex offender. We decide to tell select people at the right time.
Knowing when the time is right is the scary part. You don’t want to tell someone too soon for fear of losing them, but you don’t want to tell them too late, for fear of losing them.
We’ve already lost so many people in our lives, both friends and family who abandoned us for what we did, rather than stand by our side and raise us up. If the shoe was on the other foot, anyone, any human would want people to forgive them and help them, but when it’s their turn to forgive, they turn the other way.
As far as lying, there’s both lying by telling a completely false story, and lying by omission, which would be leaving parts of the story out or not talking about at all, and this would be for the same reason, fear of losing the person. Not to say that one is worse or better than the other, but try to understand which he might be doing before making any quick decisions.
If you love him and he loves you, this is NOT an obstacle that you can’t both overcome. Just give it time, give him time, and slowly start to talk about it more, on his timeline. Let him know that you’re supportive of him, but that you just want the full story and the full truth, when he’s ready to give it.
IÔÇÖve always been of the mind that if you choose to disclose you do so completely honestly. Not just because the facts can be easily found but. Also because part of the rebuilding process should lead with honesty. That being said, police reports and public court info generally only tells one side of the story.
Also keep in mind that when someone has this label pinned on them there is no distinction in level or type of offense. Generally your just an SO.
The likelihood of reoffending is very low but O hope since he is now being honest he is also talking about how he is improving and moving forward. And also demonstrating that on a daily basis. ItÔÇÖs good if you to at least hear him out. But he does neither you or himself any favors by not being upfront.
Edit: also there should be disclosure before any intimacy IMO
When I met my now husband we barely knew each other and he made sure to tell me right away. I think it depends on the person. I think trust is very important and that a relationship can’t be built on lies. BUT he did come clean to you so really it’s up to you to decide whether or not you can keep trusting him. I think there is a long discussion between you two coming.
There is absolutely a lot of shame involved in sharing your past when it comes to things like this. Now that doesnÔÇÖt excuse his lie or discount the fact he went about it this way. What is important is that he did own up to it and has been honest with you about everything that happened and everything going forward in your lives. I think this needs to be your focus going forward. As long as he is remaining honest and open with you, you have nothing to worry about.
The past is the past! if you do love him and will stand with him! Going forward.
Just realize life with a SO can be hard sometimes. There can be a lot of boundaries you have to consider. Like where you live, Work, play, having children and so on.
Lying is so easy to do. I lied about what I did to the police, to my dad, to my lawyer for 9 months. I even lied to myself and took the blame for others who did some bad things. Lucky my lawyer figured it out what I made up. Otherwise nit sure I would have gotten the plea I did. It took a long time years to stop lying. But when I met the love of my life after a few months I told everything in details. I’m not a RSO but I wanted to be 100% honest
We are now married I little over 19 years. My crime was 41 years ago. So yes its normal for now but you put your foot down and the lying should stop.
Idk if he is in the group therapy but most have rules regarding disclosure to anyone you are dating and it doesnÔÇÖt count if you lie about it.
Before Intimacy (any kind of sexual contact) is a pretty common therapy rule etc
I would be concerned with the lie because he hasnÔÇÖt accepted full responsibility for what he has done and until he does he wonÔÇÖt be able to move on
I started dating my boyfirend before he was convicted. He was still pending trial. He didn’t tell me right away and I didn’t really get the full picture until a few months in. However he did tell me 2 weeks into dating that he’d been charged with a sex offense and was waiting for his trial. He gave me a rough idea of what happened and what he was accused of. He told me specifically at that point because a few days later we’d planned for him to come over to my place for the night. So it was assumed we would sleep together for the first time. He told me he wanted me to know before we had sex. I really appreciated his consideration of my feelings. So I would say it’s ok he didn’t tell you immediately. It’s a difficult thing to share. It’s just whether you’re ok with how long it took for him to tell you and the intimacy that happened between you before you knew. Also for any SOs reading this, telling the person you’re dating before you have sex is the most respectful thing to do.
Please get used to saying person forced to register, a woman who is required to register or a teen registrant. You are then putting ‘person first’ language into the conversations you participate in, making a world of difference. Vicki Henry
Sorry I’m late to this.
He should have told you quite a bit sooner.
But yes od imagine it common to lie or not disclose things due to fear.
Any time i have tried dating, i normally try to bring it up by the 3rd date. Personally this has led to rejection, go figure.
Only one as later came back apologize for ghosting.
I personally havn’t tried dating in 2.5yrs.
I find it pointless. I also dont get close to folks.
I do not wish to paint a bigger target on my back than the one i currently carrie.
I own my home, have a dog and have learned to be okay with being alone.
That said if he is a good guy to you and you do love him. Dont hold him waiting so long against him… (cant speak the crime types, that’s up to you. You know the details and how you can feel of the old him vs current day him)
Because once you’re an s.o it is frankly a lonely road.
If it is not shame in yourself with constant reminders to feel shame.
It is the fears that someone will bring social justice against you with no real premise other than they can and you lose even what little dignity you can drudge up.
As an inmate onse said. I rather have a murder charge than a pissing on the side of the road charge.
(In Fl that can put you on the registry)
One more forgivable both in and out of prison.
28,M saying this.
Whatever happens best of luck to you both.