- July 3, 2024
- Posted by: legaleseblogger
- Category: Related News
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The Situation: Co-Parenting without a Formal Agreement
It’s working for us now and I don’t want to rock the boat, but I don’t want to be short sighted. I’m interested in anyone’s takes on the situation.
Background
My ex-girlfriend and I decided to split while she was pregnant with our last child. We never got married, and our kids are now 3 years old and 6 months old. We’ve been trying really hard to be cordial and it is really important to us that I have a good relationship with the kids. We have no formal agreement in place. She was really pushing to go to a lawyer to get an agreement drawn up early on, but I was resistant, and with the baby, we never got around to it.
Current Arrangements
She is currently living in New York, while I work hybrid in New Jersey and pay for an apartment there. However, I still own the house near where her family lives. Every few weeks, I take a week to work remotely and visit. We all stay in my house so I can have more time with the kids. She is still breastfeeding, and I do have to work while I’m there. I would be happy if she and the kids stayed in the house when I’m away, but she won’t. And she says she won’t live there when the kids are older, because the school district is bad. If I’m not in town, she stays with her mother (who lives an hour away). Her mother watches the kids while she works part-time. She does not pay for childcare. If I’m in town and available, I watch the kids in the evenings for 2-3 hours a night.
Financial Situation
I make $150,000, and I think she makes around $25,000. She has good savings, as she had a decent career before we had kids and has very few expenses. She decided to work less, but she still has a decent income. I have some family money ($2 million).
Support and Expenses
I buy diapers and things here and there to be helpful, but she never asks for anything. She buys their day-to-day needs and covers their insurance. She’s been really flexible when I can visit, and I appreciate that. However, I’m starting to wonder what would happen if she were to take me to court. Do my visits count as overnights if she’s there? I’m afraid that I’m paying for so much (the house, my travel, etc.) but none of it would count.
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